之前和大叮噹見面﹐因為彼此都是好相處的人﹐卻完全沒有chemistry﹐所以就不了了之。在那之後﹐我也沒有很積極的再邁出第二步。
在看完了“微笑Pasta”﹐我忍不住覺得﹐雖然說有緣自然就會發生﹐我如果什麼都不做﹐哪裡會去認識人﹐去跟誰有緣啊﹖所以﹐在稍微考慮後﹐加入了 EHarmony.com。在回答了一大堆的問題後﹐看到了他們覺得跟我會適合的男人。看了十幾個 matches 後﹐我目前只選擇跟一個開始聯絡。這個網站也很可愛﹐有所謂的 "guided communication"﹐一個階段一個階段的:
第一是看對方的profile.
接下來他問了我五個問題﹐然後我回答。
他問﹕
1. How important is chemistry to you?
(A) within the first couple of dates I need to sense a certain chemistry
2. When going somewhere:
(A) I am usually early
3. Which of the following indoor activities sounds like the most fun to you?
(A) watching a video
4. What best describes your attitude toward work?
(A) it is where I am at my best and my main focus
5. How often do you find yourself laughing?
(A) I crack myself up!
我回答後﹐也送過去五個問題。
我問﹕
1. If you decided to stay at home for the evening would you tend to:
2. How often do you lose your temper?
3. If you had to characterize the end of most of your romantic relationships, they would be described as:
4. Are pets an important part of your life?
5. What are your body-type preferences for your mate?
等他回答後﹐就是互相交換彼此在找對象時覺得最需要和最不要的qualities。
在看完對方尋找的qualities﹐互相再問五個問題。
在這些階段中﹐任何一方如果覺得沒有chemistry﹐沒興趣了﹐都可以中斷聯絡。
這種方法我覺得還不錯﹐很符合我想慢慢來的計劃。因為我覺得還是慢工出細活比較好啦!
目前就這樣啦﹐有什麼事情發生的話再寫啦~~~ 畢竟是第一個聯絡對象﹐我不要求太多﹐這個算是實驗吧﹐看看這個網站是否真的有用。
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Update: 哈哈﹐第一實驗失敗﹐無所謂﹐moving on to the next victim... haha, I mean to the next potential!
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